April is Autism Awareness Month, a time to share and honor the experiences of individuals and families living with Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD).
Diana’s* journey with her son Harry* highlights the challenges and triumphs of raising a child with autism and the life-changing impact of early intervention and specialized education. Her story is a powerful reminder of the importance of understanding and support for families navigating similar journeys. (*Names have been changed to protect their identities.)
Navigating the Early Signs of Autism
From an early age, Harry showed signs that he might experience the world differently. He avoided eye contact, struggled to focus, and exhibited repetitive behaviors like hand-flapping.
These differences became more apparent in preschool, where he was often isolated. Diana recalls, “Eventually, he was left in the back of the class. I was distraught.”
Her concerns led her to seek professional advice. After three months of consultations with a developmental pediatrician, Harry was diagnosed with ASD. This was a pivotal moment for Diana. “The diagnosis brought relief because I finally understood what was happening, but it also terrified me because I had no idea what lay ahead,” she admitted.
The Challenges of Therapy and Single Parenting
Autism therapy, like speech and occupational therapy, was a big part of helping Harry with his development. However, the financial pressure was overwhelming for Diana, who was raising Harry as a single mother. “I had to sell my car at one point just to make ends meet,” she shares.
Balancing therapy sessions with work commitments added another layer of difficulty, but support from her employer helped. “My boss was compassionate and allowed me to work from home, which made it possible for me to juggle everything,” she says.
The COVID-19 pandemic disrupted Harry’s routine, including his therapy sessions. Supporting a child with autism during these times took patience and a lot of resilience. Diana used this time creatively to keep Harry engaged. “Our grocery trips became his learning time. They helped him learn new words and engage with the world,” she explains.
A New Chapter at Taarana School
Harry’s turning point came when he joined Taarana School Malaysia, a special education needs school supported by RYTHM Foundation. At Taarana, children with autism receive individualized support that focuses on their unique needs and strengths. For Harry, it was a transformative experience.
Diana smiled as she spoke about his journey at the school: “His previous school was too focused on academics. But Taarana is different. They listen to parents and help children reach their full potential. Harry is so happy here. He has friends and is learning and thriving.”
Taarana’s approach reinforces how supporting a child with autism requires a tailored environment where they can feel understood and valued.
Why Autism Awareness Month Matters
Autism Awareness Month is an opportunity to bring attention to the early signs of autism, such as difficulty communicating, repetitive behaviors, and challenges with social interactions. Spotting these signs early can lead to timely autism therapy, which helps children build essential skills and reach new milestones.
Special needs schools like Taarana School Malaysia make a big difference in this process. These schools create personalized programs that support children’s growth and independence. For many families, they offer much-needed hope and autism support, showing how understanding and inclusive environments can change lives.
Acceptance and Resilience
For Diana, acceptance is about seeing Harry for who he is and celebrating every step he takes. “I hope all parents know we are all on our own journey but not alone. We all struggle, but that doesn’t mean we don’t love and accept our children. Acceptance doesn’t mean changing your life completely. It just means being there for your child, no matter what,” she said.
Her words are a powerful reminder of the strength parents show every day as they face the challenges of raising a child with autism. Acceptance isn’t about ignoring those challenges—it’s about understanding them, connecting with your child, and celebrating the wins, no matter how small they seem.
This Autism Awareness Month, take a moment to learn more about acceptance and how you can support families like Diana’s. Whether spreading awareness, helping, or simply listening, every effort helps create a more inclusive and understanding world.
